So, you’re freshly divorced. You’ve been through the emotional rollercoaster, and now it’s time to celebrate your newfound freedom! Throwing a divorce party with your pals is the perfect way to mark this new chapter in your life – and we’ve got some super ideas.
Whatever the reason behind your separation from your ex-spouse, divorce proceedings can be tough. But rather than wallowing in self-pity, it’s actually a great time to focus on yourself and make some positive changes.
So don’t shy away from celebrating your newfound single status – embrace it!
Put on your party outfit, gather your closest friends, and get ready to have some fun. Use our ideas below to make your divorce party one to remember:
Our Favourite Divorce Party Theme Ideas
No party is ever complete without a theme, and your divorce party is no exception.
Your theme could be something that represents a new beginning, or you could choose something a bit more lighthearted and playful to lift your spirits.
Some of our favourite themes include…
| Freedom Fiesta | A vibrant street festival theme with bright colours, tapas, cocktails, and salsa dancing, celebrating independence and freedom. |
| Phoenix Rising | A theme focused on rebirth, with fiery reds and golds, symbolising emerging stronger from the past, including a bonfire for letting go of regrets. |
| Glitz & Glam Gala | An elegant, luxurious theme with sparkling decorations and a black, gold, and silver colour scheme, perfect for a sophisticated celebration. |
| Solo Safari | An adventure-themed party with earthy tones and animal prints, representing exploration and courage, ideal for those embarking on new journeys. |
| Jailbreak Jubilee | A playful theme with black and white stripes, prisoner outfits, and a jail cell photo booth for a lighthearted take on breaking free from routine and limitations. |
9 Fun Divorce Party Ideas
If you want to mark the event with something a bit more specific, or you want to plan some fun activities to help you move on, we’ve got some great divorce party ideas.
We’ve included a mix of chill and wild options, so you can choose what feels right for your situation.
1. Spa Day Celebration
Gather your closest friends for a spa day of pampering and relaxation. Indulge in massages, facials, and manicures, letting the stress of the past drift away and focusing on self-care and rejuvenation.
Not only will a day of relaxation make you feel like a million bucks, but it can also act as a metaphor for washing away your divorce and preparing yourself to move into your new chapter without the baggage of this part of your life.
Plus, we know the divorce process can be emotionally and physically taxing, so why not treat yourself to some much-needed self-care?
| This isn’t just for women! Men, you can benefit from a relaxing day at the spa, especially if the divorce has been stressful for you! |
2. Freedom Fireworks
Mark your new beginning with a bang by hosting a fireworks show. Whether it’s a small gathering in a garden or a more elaborate event, the bright lights and loud booms can symbolise the explosive start of your next chapter.
You could also light a firepit and spend the evening eating, drinking, and laughing with friends, reminiscing about the good times and looking forward to the future.
Just be sure to check your local laws and regulations regarding fireworks before planning this event. Safety first!
3. Movie Marathon Night
For a cosy, low-key celebration, spending a night in with your closest friends watching movies can be the ultimate celebration of your divorce.
Choose films that celebrate independence, strength, and laughter. Create a cosy setup with plenty of pillows, blankets, and, of course, popcorn. It’s a night for inspiration, giggles, and maybe even a little catharsis.
Some of the best movies to watch after going through a divorce include:
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4. Potluck of New Beginnings
If you need to feel the love of those who support you and care about you, a potluck can be the perfect option.
Invite friends and family to bring a dish that represents a fresh start or a new beginning. This not only creates a diverse and interesting meal but also allows for the sharing of stories, hopes, and dreams.
5. Garden Party
For a more subdued but no less meaningful celebration, a garden party allows for an intimate connection with your nearest and dearest. Decorate with lots of flowers and greenery, making the space inviting and serene, symbolising the peace you’re finding with your new situation.
Activities can include planting new seeds or even a tree as a metaphor for growth and new life.
Alternatively, you can keep things simple and host a little picnic in your garden.
6. Travel Theme Party
If wanderlust is more your style, host a travel-themed party. Guests can dress up as tourists or in attire from a country they love. Create a bucket list of places you want to visit now that you’re entering this new phase of life.
Depending on your financial situation and other responsibilities, this divorce party could double as a going away party as you embark on the adventures offered by your new-found freedom.
7. Karaoke Night
Unleash your newfound freedom with a night of singing, laughter, and maybe a little bit of gentle embarrassment. Choose empowering and uplifting songs to belt out with friends, celebrating your strength and resilience.
This is the perfect party to segue into a full-blown night out with your friends.
If you and your ex are on good terms, it can even be a great joint divorce party to round off your relationship in a fun and respectful way.
8. A Divorced Bachelorette Party
A Divorced Bachelorette Party is all about celebrating a new chapter in life with all the fun and humour of a bachelorette party or hen do.
Go all out with the decorations, including penis-shaped everything, sashes, and even L-plates to signify your journey of learning to date again after your divorce.
This also works for a divorce stag do! Get your friends to treat it like a true stag do and get up to all the antics you did the first time around.
You can even do the things your former partner forbade you from doing last time, so don’t be afraid to check out that strip club if that’s what you want!
9. Wine Tasting
Host a sophisticated wine-tasting event, where each selection represents different countries or significant moments in life. It’s a tasteful way to acknowledge the complexity and richness of experiences, both past and future.
This is a great option if you want to keep things classy and sophisticated. You can host this party at home, or you can push the boat out and take a trip to a local winery instead!
| How to Start Dating Again: 5 Tips for Getting Back in the Game |
5 Divorce Party Games
Hosting a divorce party that’s both celebratory and healing can be uplifted with the right games. Here are five suggestions that focus on moving on and having fun:
- “New Beginnings” Charades: Participants act out movies, books, or songs that are all about new beginnings, adventures, or strong independent characters. This game is a light-hearted way to focus on the theme of moving forward.
- “Ex-Files” Trivia: A humorous take on trivia where questions are based on famous celebrity breakups, fictional breakups from movies or TV shows, and general knowledge questions about self-love and independence. It’s a way to laugh at the past while celebrating the future.
- “Release and Rebuild” Tower Game: Using blocks or a Jenga set, each block represents a thing to release (e.g., stress, old habits) or something positive to build in your life (e.g., confidence, adventure). Players take turns pulling out blocks and discussing what each signifies to them.
- “Toast to the Future” Roulette: Prepare a collection of uplifting and empowering quotes about moving on and new beginnings. Guests take turns spinning a bottle or a pointer on a board to select a quote, then make a toast to that idea or concept. It’s a reflective and optimistic way to celebrate the next chapters of everyone’s lives.
- “Map Out Your Journey” Game: Provide guests with paper, markers, and other craft supplies to create their own ‘map’ of where they’ve been and where they want to go. This can be metaphorical, literal, or a mix. Afterwards, those who are comfortable can share their maps and the stories behind them.
Divorce Party Etiquette: What to Do & Not to Do
Navigating the nuances of divorce party etiquette is crucial for a celebration that is tasteful, respectful, and ultimately uplifting.
Focus the event on celebrating a new chapter in your life, emphasising personal growth, freedom, and future aspirations, rather than dwelling on the past.
When crafting invitations, be mindful of the guest list to avoid putting mutual friends in an uncomfortable position and keep party details private to avoid drama. Communication should be respectful, focusing on lessons learned and looking forward to the future without delving into the specifics of the divorce.
Party activities should promote self-reflection, personal growth, and joy, such as creating vision boards or sharing inspirational stories.
As a gracious host, show appreciation for your guests’ support with thank you notes or thoughtful favours, and avoid any public bashing of your ex-partner, especially on social media, to maintain privacy and respect.
In short, don’t use this as an opportunity to air grievances or seek sympathy. Instead, use it as a chance to celebrate your new beginning and surround yourself with positivity and love from those who care about you.
Remember, the goal is to move forward, not dwell on the past.
The Bottom Line: Divorce Parties to Celebrate Your Next Chapter
Divorce parties epitomise the transition from endings to beginnings, providing a unique avenue to acknowledge the close of one chapter and the exciting launch of another.
By celebrating this pivotal moment, you not only affirm your personal growth and resilience but also redefine what freedom and happiness can look like for you. Here’s to new beginnings, laughter, and the endless possibilities that await in your next chapter.
If you’re looking for more guidance when navigating the transition of divorce and new relationships, check out the Illicit Encounters blog.
FAQs
How Do You Throw a Good Divorce Party?
To throw a good divorce party, focus on celebrating personal growth and new beginnings. Curate a guest list of supportive friends, choose activities and themes that reflect optimism and liberation, and ensure the atmosphere is one of joy and anticipation for the future ahead.
Is it Appropriate to Have a Divorce Party?
It can absolutely be appropriate to have a divorce party. However, you have to take into account the specific circumstances of your divorce and who might get hurt. If you have minor children, a divorce party might not be the best idea.
Who Throws a Divorce Party?
A divorce party doesn’t have the same etiquette as a hen or stag party. There’s no reason why you can’t throw yourself a divorce party or throw one for a friend (as long as they’re okay with it!).
Can You Have a Joint Divorce Party?
A joint divorce party is possible and can be a positive way to mark the transition if both ex-partners share a mutual understanding and respect and wish to celebrate their next chapters amicably. It’s crucial that both parties agree on the guest list, themes, and activities to ensure a harmonious event.
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