Should I Get a Divorce? Our Quiz Can Help You Decide

Dealing with relationship struggles can be difficult, especially if you don’t know where to turn. At Illicit Encounters, we understand the complexities of marriage and the difficulties that come with it. That’s why we’ve developed a quiz to help you determine if divorce is the right choice for you.

In today’s society, divorce has become more common and accepted. But before making such a life-altering decision, it’s important to take a step back and assess your relationship. Our quiz takes into account different factors such as communication, intimacy, and overall satisfaction.

What Our Divorce Quiz Can Tell You

We’re not suggesting that you should get all your relationship advice from the internet, nor that you should base the future of your relationship on a free online quiz. 

But with that being said, asking yourself these questions can help you gain some clarity and perspective about the state of your marriage and whether it’s worth continuing to fight for it or moving on to greener pastures.

We’ve designed this quiz to cover a broad range of relationship components to see where you’re struggling to connect in your marriage and where your strengths as a couple lie.

DISCLAIMER: This test is designed to be used as entertainment only. It’s not a definitive measure of a relationship and shouldn’t be used as such. Instead, you can take what you learned about yourself and your relationship and use it to address issues and open communication with your partner.

Take Our Divorce Quiz Below

Take our quiz below to find out where your marriage is struggling and where you’re doing better. Add up your score at the end to find out whether your relationship is doomed because of cheating and lying or is still clinging on. 

Grab a pen and paper or your notes app, and get ready to find out what the future has in store for your relationship.

#1 When You Imagine Your Future, Is Your Spouse In It?

A – Absolutely!

B – Not really

C – I’m not sure

#2 How Often Do You & Your Spouse Fight?

A – Very rarely

B – All the time

C – Occasionally

#3 How Quickly Are Your Fights Resolved?

A – Fairly quickly

B – They don’t. We just forget about them

C – It can take a while, but we get there

#4 Have Either Of You Cheated in the Marriage?

A – No, never

B – Yes

C – Not sure, possibly

#5 Do You Feel Your Marriage Is Fulfilling?

A – Yes, I enjoy my marriage

B – No, it feels stifling

C – Sometimes

#6 Who Do You Tell First When You Get Good News?

A – My spouse

B – My friends

C – Sometimes my spouse, sometimes friends/family

#7 What Do Your Friends & Family Think About Your Marriage?

A – They think we’re a good match

B – They tell me I should leave

C – They’re indifferent

#8 How Well Do You Communicate With Each Other?

A – We communicate openly most of the time

B – We don’t really communicate with each other

C – We sometimes communicate well

#9 Do You Still Plan Your Holidays Together?

A – Yes, always

B – No, not for a while

C – Sometimes, but we tend to holiday separately

#10 How Many Times a Day Do You Call/Text Your Partner?

A – Often, just to check-in

B – We rarely communicate throughout the day

C – We have occasional communication about life admin

#11 How Often Do You Have Sex?

A – We have sex regularly

B – We never have sex

C – Our sex life is sporadic

#12 Are You Both Willing to Compromise to Resolve Issues?

A – Yes, we’ve both compromised in our marriage

B – No, neither is willing to compromise

C- Yes, but one person tends to compromise more than the other

#13 Do You Think Your Marriage Is a Good Environment for Raising Children?

A – Yes, we have a healthy marriage

B – No, there’s too much hostility

C – Sometimes

#14 (If You Have Children) Do Your Kids Ever Wish You Two Were Divorced?

A – No, never

B – Yes, frequently

C – Only during particularly bad fights

Your Results…

Now you’ve answered all of the questions, it’s time to find out what your answers mean in the context of your relationship. Add up each time you answered with a specific letter and find out what that means for your relationship below.

Mostly A’s

If you got mostly A’s you have a really strong and healthy relationship. 

You communicate well with each other and are open to compromise and being emotionally vulnerable with each other. We don’t see any reason why you two should get divorced based on your answers!

Mostly B’s

If you got mostly B’s, your marriage has been on the rocks for a while, and it’s too late for a distress signal. 

If you want to give your marriage one last shot, couples counselling could still be helpful to help you improve your communication and connection. However, if you’re thinking about divorce already, it might be time to accept that it’s the end of the road.

Mostly C’s

If you got mostly C’s, your relationship isn’t beyond repair. 

Yes, you might have your ups and downs as a couple, but it’s nothing that you can’t fix with some open communication or some couples therapy. If you start actively working on improving your relationship now, there’s no need to get divorced.

Get Relationship Advice With Illicit Encounters

Relationships can be difficult to navigate, especially with the stressors of life adding external pressure. It can be hard to find someone to talk to or advice you can trust when you’re going through a rough patch, but you’re not alone.

At Illicit Encounters, we’ve taken all our years of relationship knowledge and experience and used it to inform our blog. Find all things relationship advice for all kinds of dynamics as well as helpful tips to make sure you’re getting the most out of your marriage.

Why not check out our other quiz to test your relationship: Take Our Free Online Sexual Compatibility Test

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