Tag: online affair safety

• Essay: Is This Profile Real? How to Spot Fakes, Scammers and Time-Wasters on a Married Dating Site

  Graham had been on the site eleven days when the message arrived that made him feel about ten feet tall. She was thirty-eight. She was apparently in Solihull, twelve minutes from his office. And she had read his profile closely enough to ask him about the fishing. Three messages later she wanted to move to…

• “The AirPods Read My Message Out Loud”: Three Members on the Close Call That Changed Everything

  Ask any experienced married dater about their worst moment and they won’t describe an argument or an awkward goodbye. They’ll describe a few seconds of pure, cold silence — the moment they thought it was all about to come out. Because nearly everyone doing this carefully has had one. The close call. The near miss…

• The Unwritten Rules of Married Dating

  There are things nobody tells you when you first create a profile on a married dating site. No instruction manual, no FAQ that covers what really matters. You work most of it out as you go — sometimes smoothly, sometimes rather less so. Plenty of members have been exactly where you are. They’ve learned, adapted,…